7 Ways To Deal With The Pain Of Loving Someone You Can’t Be With

Love is the most wonderful and intense power on the planet. It resembles a fierce water stream. It is free-streaming, and it gives no warning sign to where it can take you.

Love is wild, it cannot be tamedWe don’t have the power to control it. Because we are only humans. We’re made of flesh, blood and that little thing that keeps ticking inside our chest. Our heart.

But our heart doesn’t choose who to love. It just loves with all its force. Regrettably sometimes that little thing takes us on on the wrong way.

It makes us fall in love with someone who isn’t capable of loving us back the same way.

The moment we learn this sad truth it feels like our world has been broken to pieces. We can’t do anything else except for acknowledge it. Regardless of all the despair. In spite of the tears.

Here are 8 effective ways to handle your pain of loving a person you can’t have:

 

1. FIND A HOBBY AND DIVE IN THE WORLD OF CREATIVITY

The pain you feel in these cases will not let you focus on other thing in you life. Still, a better way to keep your mind busy from thinking of that person would be engaging in different, non-related activities.
Just start doing something you love. Find a hobby, or anything you enjoy spending your time with. You will see that the obsession for that certain person will eventually fade way.

2. PROTECT YOURSELF

Being just friends with them is not impossible. But, you need to make sure to protect you feelings. If all of a sudden it becomes too much for you to bare don’t hesitate to go away from that person. If they truly care for you they will definitely understand your actions. Never let your self-care be compromised.

3.MAINTAIN A SOLID SUPPORT SYSTEM

Never make the mistake of isolating yourself. The most important thing in these cases is to surround yourself with people who love you. There will be times when you will feel vulnerable and precisely in those moments you will understand the importance of someone who’s there to support you.

4. MAKE SOME HEALTHY BOUNDARIES BY LIMITING YOUR CONTACT WITH THEM

Keep on moving on, despite the pain you will feel. You will be brave enough to let go.
Your heart will scream in pain, but don’t let it take over your mind. Remember you are the only person who can take care of YOU. It’s time to forget and to start healing.
Time will heal your heart. Trust me.

5. START DATING OTHER PEOPLE

It will be painful, but you need to accept the truth that you can never be together. And one of the best ways to help you forget is to start dating other people.                                                                          But don’t look for them in another person. For once just try to enjoy the company of other people in your life for that they are. Don’t try to change them into the person you’re desperately in love with. Just be open to the possibility of finding true love.

6. LET THEM KNOW EXACTLY HOW YOU FEEL

The best way is to be honest and open about your feelings. For your well being you need express them and put an end to this story. Get it off your chest.
But don’t do it make them feel sorry for you. Start talking without any expectations in mid, be honest with them and yourself. After getting everything clear you will feel better with yourself.

7. WRITE DOWN YOUR DEEPEST EMOTIONS

If it can make you feel any better just open up a diary and start writing everything you feel. Every heartache, every thrill, every irrational thought, every deep emotion that resides in your soul.

It is scientifically proved that putting your thoughts on a piece of paper helps you heal faster.